James tells us "But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves..." It's not every day though that you meet someone who goes above and beyond what we might think being "doers of the word" entails, and that's why I'm pleased to introduce to you the founder and director of a registered 501 C3 apostolate The 4 Persons Inc, John Benko.
The 4 Persons is
"a grass-roots apologetics, teaching and engaged group of activists for
the Catholic faith", and includes the 4 Persons show which you can
follow at https://the4persons.com and the 4 persons blog which you can follow at https://the4persons.net.
I had the pleasure and honor of interviewing John about his organization, his faith life, and some of his views on the state of the world and the faith today. Without further ado, I hope you enjoy the interview!
1) When did you start The 4 Persons, and what inspired you to do so?
I
really started online apologetics by founding an apostolate called
Deeper Truth, back in 2009. Sadly, that group was commandeered by
fanatics and liars who promote condemned private revelation and turned
into a cult hero worship of Donald Trump. I left and formed The 4 Persons and pretty much all of the followers, and most of the members followed me over.
I formed The 4 Persons
to promote and defend authentic Catholic doctrine, teachings and social
action. Frankly speaking, we live in a world that is on fire and faith
is the only beacon, in this valley of tears, that makes any sense to me.
2) Can you tell us a little bit about what's behind the name of The 4 Persons?
The
name comes from an explanation given to me by a Catholic counselor. In
dealing with traumatized and shattered people, they can only be
ministered to if you understand that every human being is ''4 persons".
It's a rhetorical device of course, but it focuses recognition on the
needs of the whole person in the 4 facets: emotional, mental, spiritual
and physical. I came to realize how right she was when I read that those
4 persons must all be healthy for us to fully love God. You see them in
Mark 12:30; all 4 of them are right there:
"And thou shalt love
the Lord thy God, with thy whole heart, and with thy whole soul, and
with thy whole mind, and with thy whole strength. This is the first
commandment."
3) Can you share any stories about how your organization has positively impacted other individuals and/or groups?
I
would start with the members themselves. In a short time, we have
strung together a number of big shows with Catholic figures such as
Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers, Karl Keating, Steve Ray, Donna Cori Gibson,
Suan Sonna, Gary Michuta, Scott Hahn, David Gray, Mike Aquilina, Father
Imbaratto and others. We have expanded into video productions and many
Facebook groups and are reaching thousands worldwide.
I would
then talk about how are network has grown and how we are involving
ourselves with other networks like Catholicism Rocks. Our members have
even made appearances on EWTN and Catholic Answers.
The biggest
thing is finding our material circulating around the internet. Our video
Christmas special on the birth date of Jesus is an example.
4)
Were you always Catholic? How has your faith grown over time? Can you
tell us of any struggles you've had with it along the way?
Endless
struggles. I've always been Catholic to some degree but the pains and
sorrows are what make it real and make our faith real. We discover that
paradox that He is closest to you when He seems farthest from you. My
family has suffered unspeakable things and I wish I could say we always
came through it.
I have learned that being a Catholic is loving
the unlovable, hoping for the hopeless, believing the unbelievable and
forgiving the unforgivable. This is the gift we have been given and we
must do likewise.
5) One of the things your
organization believes in is not whitewashing the truth. What are some
things you believe contribute to the tendency of other people and
organizations to NOT boldly proclaim the truth and to whitewash it
instead?
It was the natural progression of things with
the Americanization of religion, with this idea of inclusion and
tolerance and not offending anyone. This combined with this so-called
''free market'' which has become anything but. We have become slaves to
the ones who write the checks, play the shows and click the links. The
need to sensationalize is still there but now we are told who to laud
and who to demonize and too often, our own bank accounts and egos hold
sway in our decision making. I want healthy stats as much as anyone but
not at the expense of losing my soul.
6) What are 3-5 truths you believe have become most whitewashed in our current day and age, and why?
Certainly,
sexual sin. We must speak boldly about abortion and paedophilia and
child trafficking as horrors crying out to heaven for vengeance.
However, the whole glorification of sex, including pornography. We must
cry out about how it objectifies and dehumanizes both men and women.
Unbridled
greed and ambition follows in the same tracks. Always the need to have
bigger toys, bigger houses and all of it. Families are being fractured
by a society glued to a smart phone.
Lastly, the alarming
movement of the occult from the extreme to the main stream. In music, in
books, in movies. This is made possible through the denial of good and
evil as even existing. People are reduced to robots with nothing more
than brain impulses and physical urges. We have created an entire
generation of sociopaths.
7) What are some of the biggest myths and misconceptions Catholics themselves have about the Catholic faith, and why?
John
the Baptist said God could raise up stones to be children to Abraham. A
lot of Catholics fall into that same Pharisaical trap of thinking they
will be saved by who they are rather than what they become. Sure, they
show up on the Big ones... Christmas...Easter.... Then they retreat back
to their lives of sin and avarice thinking they can check back in a
couple of times a year.
That we have a basic catechism problem
goes without saying. Worse than that is that we have many Catholics who
are far more in love with the world, and themselves, than with Jesus and
their neighbor. Most Catholics are sleep walking, totally unaware of
the horror around them.
8) What are 3-5 things you would recommend every Catholic should do in order grow deeper in their faith, and why?
1.
Start every day with a morning offering and end it with an Act of
Contrition and say many prayers in between. A Catholic who isn't praying
is on his way to hell. The Rosary is the life line.
2. You must read Catholic books. Start with the classics. Dark Night of the Soul for example.
3. Do not wallow in sin or self pity. Go to confession quickly after a fall. Pray for the grace to withstand trials.
4.
Pray and sacrifice for those with no one else to pray and sacrifice for
them. They will not forget you, though everyone else does.
5. Learn your faith and boldly defend it.
9)
Let's say someone stumbles upon your website for the first time. What
post(s) or show(s) would you say they should listen to first that would
make them want to come back?
We have a ton of stuff on
answering the most common objections to the faith. Articles, shows,
videos. Real tools in the toolbox. Always adding more.
10)
What other lesser-known people or organizations would you recommend
others check out if they want to learn more about the Catholic faith?
The
best course of action is find one source you trust then follow the
spider web of links attached to them. It's a thousand points of light
but they all have to be connected to the body and faithful to the
Magisterium. Some young apologists like Suan Sonna are doing amazing
work and the technology makes it so easy.
I want to thank John for taking the time out of his busy
schedule to do this interview with us and I would encourage you to check
out his show at https://the4persons.com and his blog at https://the4persons.net.
He's
truly a doer of the word, and I hope you're inspired by his example to
go deeper into your faith and share it with the world!